

To build
marriages to their full, Godly potential
Parkway Marriage
Vision
To build marriages to their full, Godly
potential.
Functions
1 Marriage Enrichment
Marriage enrichment programs conducted
annually. Involves a weekly meeting and commitment by each spouse to
fun 'homework' exercises. A cost is involved to cover the purchase of
work books and other material.
For term 1 2010, the program is the eight week
'Boundaries in Marriage', starting on Wednesday 17 February.
2 Marriage Preparation
Topics include:
1 Family of Origin
2 Communication
3 The Role of a Christian Husband and Wife
4 Finances
5 Sex
6 Marriage Vows
(and for second and subsequent
marriages)
7 Dealing with the Past
8 Looking to the Future.
See
Parkway Marriage Preparation (pdf).
3 Marriage Connect Group
A weekly meeting under the covering of
Parkway for couples passionate about enhancing their marriage and promoting
Christian marriage.
It’s important that it is widely known that
the Marriage Connect Group is available for couples to attend ideally under
the following circumstances:
- For couples who currently attend a
Connect
Group – participate in a marriage enrichment program of duration at most
one school term, then return to their original Connect Group
-
For couples new to Parkway or who currently
do not attend a Connect Group – participate in a marriage enrichment program,
then become part of the ongoing Marriage Connect Group.
Facilitated by John and Gay.
4 Newly Weds Network
A support network for couples, particularly
in their early years of marriage. A newly married couple is paired with a
mutually compatible couple in order to encourage them to grow and enjoy
their new marriage.
5 Marriage Counselling
Counselling available in a private,
confidential and caring environment. Ring the Parkway office on 6296 7701 or email
office@parkway.net.au for
an appointment.
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Ring the Parkway office on 6296 7701 or email
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God says lots about Marriage (growing
daily) from BibleGateway.com 
- The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be
alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." Gen 2:18 - Companionship
the primary reason for marriage
- For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to
his wife, and they will become one flesh. Gen 2:24 - Oneness
- If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to
war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to
stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married. Deut 24:5 -
Focus on establishing a new marriage
- Two are better than one, because they have a good
return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But
pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down
together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one
may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is
not quickly broken. Eccles 4: 9-12 - Working, warming, warring together in
marriage; husband, wife and God are the three strands
- A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth
far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks
nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the
merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still
dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.
She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a
vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her
tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out
at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her
fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are
clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine
linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes
his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells
them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength
and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and
faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her
household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and
call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: "Many women do noble
things, but you surpass them all." Charm is deceptive, and beauty is
fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Give her the
reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Prov 31: 10-31
- The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise
the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but
also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to
him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual
consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then
come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control. 1Cor 7:3-5 - Duty to each other
- Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the
head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 1Cor 11:3 - Roles
and order within marriage
- In the Lord, however, woman is not independent of man, nor is man
independent of woman. 1Cor 11:11 - Interdependence of husband and wife
- If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am
only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy
and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that
can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess
to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain
nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily
angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes,
always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope
and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1Cor 13:1-8; 13 - Love is an
act of the will, a decision; agape love is other-centred
- There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you
are all one in Christ Jesus. Gal 3:28 - Equality of spouses
- Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the
head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he
is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should
submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as
Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy,
cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her
to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other
blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love
their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After
all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as
Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. "For this reason a
man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two
will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about
Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as
he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Eph 5:22-33 -
Headship and submission; sacrificial love; marriage models Christ's love for
his bride, the church
- Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for
God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Heb 13:4 - Love
making is the unique seal of marriage
Marriage Food
5.
Marriage food: Why marriage? Certainly to "Be fruitful and increase in
number...", but primarily for companionship (Gen 2:18,24). Am I my spouse's best
friend?
4.
Pastor John
Mack preaches a great message based on Ecc 4: 9-12 - working, warming, warring
together in marriage. 'A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.' -
husband, wife and God are the three strands.
3.
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife,
and likewise the wife to her husband. 1Cor 7:3. How does this apply in
our marriage?
2.
We’re currently rereading Gary
Chapman’s ‘The Five Love Languages’. He describes 1 Words of Affirmation; 2
Quality Time; 3 Receiving Gifts; 4 Acts of Service; 5 Physical Touch as the 5
ways love can be expressed. What ways does my spouse appreciate love being
expressed to them? Am I meeting their need?
1.
Eph 5:22-33 ends “This is a profound mystery – but I am talking about Christ and
the church.” How does our marriage reflect Christ’s love for his bride, the
church, to others?
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